Thank you to the lady at Starbucks for asking about my son! He is amazing, and I was able to share that with you in our brief interaction. Thank you for apologizing for being nosy! I didn't feel you were intruding on my morning, you were curious and instead of staring you approached me.
As a mom I struggled putting Lincoln in the brace from day one of getting it. I struggled even more when the weather changed in Arizona from pants to shorts temperatures. People stare, wonder what happened, if he hurt his ankle, etc ... And in true human nature, I didn't like the vanity of it all. As a mom I want to protect him from scrutiny, from judgment, and from cruelty.
But today you asked me why he had it and I thank you! Because today I answered you with confidence -- no shame -- I answered you with strength. I have learned people really don't know what bracing is for, or that strokes happen to children, and today I learned even more that I am healing. You were shocked over my explanation and you weren't awkward, you smiled and told me I must be doing a great job -- that as mothers we go to any length for our babies. You are right, we do, but you were genuine and sometimes even the bravest mothers need reassurance. So again I sincerely thank you.
Lincoln is a happy, active toddler. Most people don't see his challenges and for that I am grateful. In the process of being a mom, I have experienced things I don't wish on anyone, but I have learned about myself as well. I believe my son will live a happy, successful life. And I believe as humans we are stronger than we give ourselves credit for.
We may be strangers to the people we meet daily at a coffee shop, in line at a store, at the gym or many places in life, but you never know when your interaction may positively affect someone. My interaction was a single reminder that the world needs more love and kindness, and today I truly appreciated a stranger.
